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My wife and i was indeed together 5 years and are also within early 30s. We defined as a good cis/het couples; but not, the guy recently made an appearance while the queer for me. And that i envision I am as well – easily have been currently solitary, I would personally be thinking about pursuing women/non-binary/trans anybody. Herein lies our dispute. For the a good macro height, We completely understand and you will assistance it. But have no demand for in an open relationship.

There are many things about our relationship one to eschew the traditional program our world pushes – we never ever would like to get partnered or enjoys pupils, you will find never ever put gendered terminology such as for instance sweetheart/wife – however, I am extremely struggling with delivering onboard that have low-monogamy.